by Rhonda Scharf | Jun 28, 2021 | Ask Rhonda, Help Me Rhonda
Memories can be capricious. Some people remember things more favourably than they actually were, and others seem to remember things as having been far worse than they actually were. I read the line, “the memory is stronger than the experience itself” in a...
by Rhonda Scharf | Jun 22, 2021 | Ask Rhonda, Help Me Rhonda
People tend to look at the world we live in as either positive or negative, with a few people choosing to believe they are realistic instead. Some negatively obsess over the death toll, the impact on the economy, the life that has been taken away. Others focus on the...
by Rhonda Scharf | Jun 14, 2021 | Ask Rhonda, Efficiency, Help Me Rhonda
There are lots of reasons not to delegate; it’s just easier to do yourself, you can do it better, you can do it faster, or (the classic) it takes longer to explain it than to do it yourself. And, ultimately, people assume that because you don’t have...
by Rhonda Scharf | Jun 7, 2021 | Ask Rhonda, Goal Setting, Help Me Rhonda
It looks like alphabet soup after some names, doesn’t it? Do all those letters and numbers mean anything? Do they add value to your company? Do they add more money to your pocket? Is it worth it to even bother? [ctt template=”3″ link=”3e1e6″...
by Rhonda Scharf | May 31, 2021 | Ask Rhonda, Goal Setting, Help Me Rhonda
From time to time, I develop what Buddhists call monkey mind. I have huge rambling conversations with myself, going over all the issues, deadlines, and situations that are happening. I’m guessing that you also have similar bizarre internal conversations. Do you...
by Rhonda Scharf | May 25, 2021 | Ask Rhonda, Communication, Help Me Rhonda
Do you enjoy receiving a compliment? Do you like hearing “You look great today” or “You’re so efficient?” I know I do, and I hold a few compliments in my memory banks for the times when I need to remind myself that I do good things. And, I dislike the wolf whistle or...
